Code Chaos: The Great gRPC Reversion Saga Unfolds

In a whirlwind of alterations, developers swing back to gRPC's latest upgrade, questioning the impact of their choices!

Commit Details:

chore: revert "chore: revert "fix: Upgrade grpc-js to 1.11 (#2214)" (#2263)" (#2265) ## Why is this change needed? The grpc-js downgrade did not have a measurable impact ## Merge Checklist _Choose all relevant options below by adding an `x` now or at any time before submitting for review_ - [x] PR title adheres to the [conventional commits](https://www.conventionalcommits.org/en/v1.0.0/) standard - [x] PR has a [changeset](https://github.com/farcasterxyz/hub-monorepo/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md#35-adding-changesets) - [X] PR has been tagged with a change label(s) (i.e. documentation, feature, bugfix, or chore) - [ ] PR includes [documentation](https://github.com/farcasterxyz/hub-monorepo/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md#32-writing-docs) if necessary. <!-- start pr-codex --> --- ## PR-Codex overview This PR updates dependencies and refactors stream handling in the `bufferedStreamWriter` and `server` files. ### Detailed summary - Updated `@grpc/grpc-js` dependency to version `~1.11.1` - Refactored stream handling in `bufferedStreamWriter.ts` - Added `destroyStream` function in `server.ts` for handling stream errors > ✨ Ask PR-Codex anything about this PR by commenting with `/codex {your question}` <!-- end pr-codex -->